I saw also that there was an ocean
of darkness and death, but an infinite ocean of light and love, which flowed
over the ocean of darkness. And in that also I saw the infinite love of God;
and I had great openings.
George Fox, Journal, 1647
These are some of my experiences during and after the
"reconfiguration" of Indiana Yearly Meeting.
This is an article that I wrote for Quaker Life on July 17, 2013.
Soon after writing it, the formal separation took place at Indiana Yearly Meeting Sessions in 2013 at Quaker Haven Camp. My own meeting, Friends of the Light, in Traverse City, Michigan, joined the New Association of Friends that fall, bringing the number of congregations to 15.
I AM ABOUT TO DO A NEW
THING
After decades of relative
peace, Indiana Yearly Meeting is separating, with meetings holding almost a
third of the membership leaving, either to become independent, or to form a new
body.
As in any life-changing
event, we each have our own story. My sense is that while the focus was on a
statement of inclusivity developed by West Richmond Friends, the discussions
that followed highlighted many differences: views of human and organizational
authority, the interpretation of scripture and the teachings of Jesus. Some
wanted uniformity of beliefs to be enforced; others did not. Friends' peacemaking
abilities were stretched, but eventually it became clear that reconciliation was
not going to happen. I wrote:
An image is coming to me of having been in a catastrophic event.
It is as if my home, along with others in the neighborhood, has been destroyed.
We are traumatized, in occasional disbelief that it could have happened. With
repeated realization come unexpected tears. But as we look around, we see that
we are all alive, all safe... Most of us have not built before. We simply lived
in our old houses. So we are going to have to identify gifts and skills that
exist among us, and many of us are going to learn new skills.
In January of this
year, 120 of us gathered at Richmond First Friends to share food and worship.
We recognized that schism was inevitable, and began to prepare ourselves for
formal separation. The Friend who served as clerk for the evening asked people
to report if their meetings were 'engaged' in plans for a new organization,
'dating' or observing. We agreed some
broad aims, then appointed trustees and a nominating committee. We needed to be
sufficiently organized to be able to incorporate legally, so that we could
receive the funds and property as part of the settlement.
We had to move
forward - deadlines had been set. However, too much pressure to be
"in" or "out" would add to the stress in meetings, as well
as adding to the lines that had already been drawn. We wanted to avoid wounding
splits in congregations. With a lot of trust, and some hugs and tears, we began
the process of building a new Quaker family. We decided to delay choosing a
permanent name for ourselves until we knew what our ultimate geographical
boundary was, and incorporate simply as The
New Association of Friends. I ended
my blog:
So here we are. A little shaky, but wearing new hard hats and
work boots, on a giant Habitat site, ready to join a crew to build the
structures for our community, and to build community itself in a more
intentional way. We have friends around the world praying for us and cheering
us on. We will tread on each other’s toes – it’s a good thing about the work
boots. In our clumsiness, we may hammer our own thumbs, or say things we
regret. But if we keep our eyes on the Source of our faith, on why we are doing
the work, and end each workday with laughter and gratitude and forgiveness, I
think it will be just fine.
I accepted the
invitation to serve as clerk, cleared my calendar, and began regular travel between
home in northern Michigan to Indiana and Ohio. With a laptop and mobile phone I
can work anywhere, but my favorite place is in the archives of the Lilly
Library at Earlham, surrounded by minute books and bound copies of The American Friend.
Thank goodness for
social media. One member had already set up a listserv. With no funds for mailings, and a need to communicate, I started
two Facebook pages: The New Association
of Friends, and, for those who want to stay connected, despite the division
in the yearly meeting, Friends in
Indiana, Ohio and Michigan. I used a free service to send an occasional
electronic newsletter. We needed to get a website up quickly, so initially we chose Friends
General Conference's Quaker Cloud as our platform. We are not part of FGC - we all have semi-programmed
worship and most of us have pastors, but we have found them to be helpful.
One by one, meetings began
to join. With no staff or office, we needed a mailing address and, on the day
when it decided to join the New Association, New Castle First Friends Meeting
offered to be that home. The 'baby' was well and truly born in April when we
were notified by the State of Indiana of our incorporation. In June, with the support of Indiana Yearly
Meeting, we were accepted as full members of Friends United Meeting. Our
conversations with Friends Committee on National Legislation and Friends World
Committee for Consultation about recognition are also looking hopeful.
Things are moving fast. In
six months we went from nonexistence to vitality. At the time of writing we
have fourteen meetings (800 people) and some individual members whose meetings
have chosen either to remain part of Indiana Yearly Meeting, or to become
independent. We are a network of
independent meetings, but we share a vision of mutual support. We are diverse
in theology, history and size. Two of our meetings, West Elkton and Richmond
First Friends, are more than 200 years old and predate the founding of Indiana
Yearly Meeting. Three more, Spiceland, Salem and Raysville, are more than 150
years old. Dublin, Muncie, New Castle, West Richmond and Pennville are over a
hundred years old. There are a couple in their 90s: Bluff Point and
Williamsburg, and one youngster, Englewood, which is 25 years old.
One of our meetings
has over 200 members. Two have slightly over 100 members, and two just under
100. One has 54, and six have in the teens or twenties. Two have fewer than ten
members. Rural depopulation has left a faithful remnant caring for aging
buildings. I anticipate many opportunities for us to form volunteer work crews
to work on some of each other's buildings and grounds.
Much of the last six
months has been spent on legal and administrative work: getting incorporated,
developing a purpose statement, recording of gifts in ministry, and so on. We
don't want administration to dominate, though. After a time of pain and some
isolation, we want to get to know each other better, to worship together, and
to relax, as we did at a recent picnic in a state park. All our business meetings begin with worship
and joyful shared meals, as we make new friends. We are eager for more shared religious education,
and opportunities to serve.
After a period of
inward focus, it is time to look outward. In addition to FUM's work, our
meetings support a range of ministries from local food pantries to global
service. We want to know more about each other's ministries, and share our
support. As part of the settlement, Indiana Yearly Meeting will transfer some
endowments for Earlham College, Earlham School of Religion, Ramallah Friends
School and college scholarships for African American students. This will give us the opportunity to keep
alive the vision of those who gave those funds, long ago, and to showcase the
impact that the recipients are making on the world today.
We found ourselves
in a place that we did not expect or seek, and this called out flexibility and
creativity that we scarcely knew we had. Earlier this year, a Friend designed
what we called a "logo-ish thing" to be used temporarily - some
grass, our name and the quotation from Isaiah 43:19, "I am about to do a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive
it?" As I emerge and take a
breath, I can look back and say, truly, this has been so.
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